the notion that i "can have any man i want" is a peculiar one. empowering, some might say. but it all really boils down to one's definition of "have". what does that mean? if you considering "having" a man, as sleeping with him, well my dears, this is no major accomplishment. a man will sleep with any woman if given the chance, and it's just a bonus if she looks good.

if you say that to "have" a man is to be in a relationship with him...this is a better explanation i suppose. it does though leave a lot to be desired. from a woman's perspective simply being in a relationship with a man, no matter how serious she thinks it is, has no bearing on reality as far as the male is concerned. sure, i could be in any relationship if i wanted, with whomever i choose. this is good i suppose, better than being single, most people would think. ahhh, but this is still yet not quite the ultimate for a female, it holds no guarantees.

i quantify "have" as having your man for life. having him means married or at least committed to you for the long haul, father of your children, protector of your home, companion, best friend, sexual equal, we're talking, this guy worships the ground you walk on and thinks of you as his queen, honors you, and wants to be your man in all respects. yes, by god, then having any many i want is quite empowering.

i can have any man i want and he'll love me and only me forever.

yes, ladies and gentleman, i am that good. this product won't be on the open market for long.

haughty? no, not i. empowered, proud, coming into my own? yes. we will explore exactly how stellar i am later. :D

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Last Five
treasure - Thursday, Sept. 06, 2006
need - Sunday, May. 22, 2005
where is here - Friday, May. 13, 2005
save me. - Monday, May. 09, 2005
nonsense - Sunday, May. 01, 2005

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