ahhh, the more i think rationally on this, the more it becomes clear. homeboy does not want to be in a "relationship" because he does not want to be attached. he wants to do whatever the fuck he wants with whoever the fuck he wants. i can respect time for work or time for music or the need for head space. this makes sense to me. the "dating" other female thing is just a function of the male ego. there is no merit to it. it is fucking pathetic. because there is no one better for him than me. all the rest are stupid, insignificant pieces of ass. nothing of substance will ever come of it.

no, the real reason, the deep down, honest to god truth is that this chump is victim of the typical male malfeasance. the cliched "fear of commitment". not wanting to be "tied down". "free to do whatever" he chooses.

lemme tell you ladies, this is the biggest sign of a boy, not a man. a true man steps up to the plate and takes on the responsability, the allegiance to another person. it is the highest success a being can achieve. that of finding a mate and committing to them. having a family, procreating and producing a new generation. from an anthropological viewpoint a man is not truly a man until he has produced an heir and provides for his family. what else is a species here for? what is truly the main goal of all life? to reproduce and put forth offspring who will in turn continue the line. and in humans this includes having a family and providing for said family. a man will never be a Man until he has fufilled this function and reached the full potential of his character.

(likewise for a woman, i do not discriminate.)

and so many men have this issue. and what it is, is the fear of growing up. the fear of having responsability. the fear of putting others before his own ego. and maybe it is not just fear, but also laziness, cowardice, complacency, weakness.

for shame. you are better than that. or maybe not.

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Last Five
treasure - Thursday, Sept. 06, 2006
need - Sunday, May. 22, 2005
where is here - Friday, May. 13, 2005
save me. - Monday, May. 09, 2005
nonsense - Sunday, May. 01, 2005

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